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How to introduce the newborn to their elder sibling ?

There will be a lot of joy and celebration in a family when the news of welcoming a new baby in the house is announced. However, bringing in a newborn for the second time is a totally different experience as your older toddler is at home and as you guessed right there will be a bag of mixed emotions when you break the news to your little one. You as parents will be equally anxious as during the first delivery there was enough time to focus on recovering from child birth. But this time round there is the job of looking after your elder kid as well as supporting him / her with his /her emotions. You will surely be wondering how to meet the needs of both your kids and how your elder one will react to the new addition to the family. The stark reality is that you were concentrating on your only child earlier . For him / her it was a mom-centric world. But hence forth he / she would have to share his world with a younger sibling who has grabbed the attention of the whole house. Consider a creative way to introduce your child to the family’s newest addition. So here are a few tips to deal with the situation.

Breaking the Big News

Before birth of the child as you can notice the bump try talking to your little one about the new addition to the family. Probably showing pictures about pregnancy can help depending on the understanding and age of the child. Make your little kid touch your bump and feel the baby moving inside. Tell him stories about what the little one will be doing inside and that he / she is waiting you meet her / his little brother / sister.

Include your Child

You should plan to take your little one for all the prenatal check up appointments with you. Your child should be allowed to hear the heartbeats of the unborn sibling and also should be shown the sonography so that excitement builds up in the little ones mind and he eagerly awaits the arrival of his younger sibling. Also you should allow him to touch your belly andask him to introduce himself to the unborn. They say that the unborn child understands everything you speak to him when he is in the womb.

Prepare your kid for your hospital stay

A few days before your admission to the hospital, you as a mother should prepare your child for your absence. You can tell him how much hisgrandparents love him and they are specially coming home to be with him and take care of him . Also you can plan activities with him so that he can doit with them. Schedule hospital visits for your elder one so that he knows where you are and he is also introduced to his little brother / sister as a BIG brother.

Make your Child feel responsible

Give the older child responsibilities and privileges for being the elder brother / sister. Tell him / her that the newborn will not do anything unless helped by his elder bro / sis. Make him feel that he is the first to make his little sibling smile. That will create a beautiful bond between them from the point of the elder one.

Albums Help

Show your kid his old Albums and tell him how cute he was as a baby and still is. Till the age of three children are very egocentric and would love praise from his mother whom he adores. You can also tell him stories about his days as a baby and how he wanted to be carried all the time and alsp prepare him that the newborn is going to do the same and he has to help mom with taking care of baby.

Let your child Express himself

Listen to what your child wants to tell you. Maybe he wants to express his excitement or his fears regarding the arrival of the new baby. Answer all his questions . He will definitely feel that he is being listened to and that you are not neglecting him.

Dad should help

It is very important that when the second baby is on its way Dad should pose as a very important figure in the elder ones life. He should emphasize that he is getting more of dad than the baby. But should also explain that both dad and elder bro will help mom to look after the little baby with diapers and all other little chores.
Further on with proper guidance from parents and grandparents Siblings can become the best of friends and confidants. The saying “ Friends come and go but Family is forever” is so true.